It's a Man's World and a Woman's Universe by Patricia Allen PhD

Author:Patricia Allen PhD. [Patricia Allen, PhD.]
Language: eng
Format: epub
ISBN: 9781504370080
Publisher: Balboa Press
Published: 2017-03-09T05:00:00+00:00

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KEEPING COMMITMENTS

A masculine energy husband or wife must keep his or her commitments to maintain your respect. Any sloppiness with commitments indicates that he or she doesn’t cherish your feelings and wants his or her feelings cherished instead. Narcissistic people always want to be respected and cherished, so if they fail to make or keep commitments, they want their behavior to be accepted, not challenged. But a woman or man with such a person will soon stop feeling cherished and will quickly lose respect for them.

Of course, at the same time that you’re watching to see how your masculine energy man or woman handles priorities, he or she is watching to see how you are handling yours. Do you look appealing? Are you taking care of yourself? What about listening to his or her ideas? Are you fighting him or her for power and respect? Do you either break commitments or fail to make them? Do you fail to appreciate what they do to please you? Do you give back love, affection, time, and sensuous sexuality?

To get what you want as a cherishable man or woman, you must give your masculine husband or wife what he or she wants —unless it’s immoral, unethical, or illegal. What about maintaining your primary role? Are you staying in your feminine receptive energy, or, if you are the masculine energy woman or man, the leader respected role? Often both people find that, after the period of bliss, their natural tendencies, drives, and behaviors start pushing them back into single narcissism.

Not every committed man or woman wants what is necessary to be either the feminine energy or the masculine. It can be very difficult to suppress a need to control and instead be passive, patient, and vulnerable. Also, it can be very difficult to suppress the urge to kick back and relax leadership in favor of waiting passive-aggressively if you are a tired masculine man or woman. Remember, complements attract, and similars repel.

Here’s a pledge that I ask masculine energy women and men to take: “I promise, on my honor, to cherish women, kids, animals, and the planet, even when they are irrational, illogical, and often irritating.”

Also, here’s the pledge of feminine energy men and women: “I promise, on my honor, to respect my chosen man or woman and their thoughts, suggestions, ideas and plans, even when I know I’m smarter and can do it better, as long as they are moral, ethical, and legal. Furthermore, I promise to keep my yang mouth shut unless I have to call a cop, a doctor or a lawyer first.”

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